I had a good time rekindling friendships with my primary school mates, all 30 or so of them, at Sekolah Sri Petaling's 40th anniversary alumni dinner last night. True, only a fraction of us from our batch turned up but it was nevertheless an opportune time to catch up on what's been happening in our lives and to reminisce over our antics during our childhood.
What I realised was that whilst many of us are in touch via Facebook, it never really is the same as meeting in person. The camaraderie is what endears us to one another, still very much so after all these years. Yes, we may have grown apart somewhat, but the bonds that we sowed so many years ago, decades actually, are there for us to rekindle, if we make the effort. The challenge really is to keep the momentum of keeping in contact going. So often, we rely on the enthusiastic few to encourage us to do so; it's time for the rest of us to step up to the plate.
We shared great experiences in our childhood - we embraced each other when we knew not of societal norms and boundaries, we threw caution to the wind when it came to co-curricular activities. Come to think of it, the latter still holds true for some .... didn't I read somewhere about Lionel and Monitar representing us in the inter-batch badminton competition, crooked knee, sore muscles and all? And Ritz relating how he pulled a muscle during warmup and ending up as linesman during the inter-batch football tournament? Instead of relying on these wonderful memories of the past, it's perhaps time to create new ones in the present. Dinner at Lionel's cafe anyone? Soon too!!!
Photo shot at Dewan Perdana Felda in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.
Hi KW,
ReplyDeleteThanks for posting this in your blog.
Yes.It was an affair to rekindle friendships and to reminisce the good old times we had in SSP.Perhaps next time we'll make sure of a performance frm Batch 82:-)
May be the Eye of the Tiger 6 Melati dance?:-)
Nina Samad
i remember THAT dance (no, i was way too uncool to be included in that one hahahaha). for some reason i remembered the 'pointing-to-the-floor' move of that... c'mon gary Q - show us how it is done!
ReplyDeleteEye of the Tiger...hahahaha...I remember that one. That WAS the last time I ever danced on stage. Must be a reason why I don't do such things!
ReplyDeleteBut it is unfortunate that I couldn;t make it for the dinner. Business first right?
Ok you 6 Melati people, you shall all dance at the next alumni dinner haha!
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